Singles Relating: Singles make assumptions without consulting the other person, then decide the direction of the relationship. Singles relate:
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What if your date thinks he/she is a mind reader or a psychic? Of course, you would never do anything so rude, but some other folks don't give the other person a chance to provide ongoing input as they make decisions affecting the relationship. They make their assumptions, and without consulting the other person, they decide the direction of the relationship. They assume they know what their partner believes, imagine how their partner will react, and then decide what needs to be done. Somewhere along the way they forgot to talk with their partner to see if any of the imaginary stuff was actually true. They are so sure they have you figured out, they really don’t need to get your input, so they will just plan your mutual futures. One day they come up to you and inform you that they can’t continue dating someone who is selling drugs to school kids and teaching Satanism to junior college students. |
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