If single moms ever want a man in their lives at any time, there are some pretty practical reasons for finding this man when they are younger.

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When a woman makes the children her sole focus, everyone loses something.


Single Moms Find Man Now!
By Richard Sides

If you want a man in your life at any time, there are some pretty practical reasons for finding this man when you are younger.

First, the male/female ratio changes as people age.

When people are in their 20s and early 30s, there are more single men than women. As people approach 40, however, the ratios even, then there are more single women than men. In addition, there is competition from younger women to add to the difficulty of snaring a suitable mate. So, it is just plain easier to find a man when you are younger.

 

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If you want a man in your life at any time, there are some pretty practical reasons for finding this man when you are younger.

Second, there are not millions of good guys to sort through, and the picking gets thinner as women age. We (men) are pretty hard to housebreak; you might as well start early!

Third, when a woman makes the children her sole focus, everyone loses something.

1. The lady misses the companionship, support, and intimacy the right partner could offer. An extra parent might give her an occasional break that could even make her an even better mom.

2. Children miss a resident, full-time, male-role model.

3. The guy loses a great lady and some wonderful kids.

 

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In spite of this, some women still want to wait to have a relationship. Something is clearly wrong with this picture.

I am not aware of any studies showing that single-parent families are better for children than two-parent families. I am also unaware of studies suggesting that lonely women make the best moms.

Certainly your kids would like to have all your time ... but in the long run, they might be better off with a little less time from a lot more mom. Maybe it's time to "get a life."

Many single moms feel dating will be too time-consuming. However, dating doesn't have to take forever.

Most singles learned about dating while still in school. Unfortunately, they haven't learned much since.

The rules have changed, though, and dating doesn't have to be frustrating and time consuming. Properly done, singles' ads, social functions, matchmakers, and plenty of other alternatives exist to sitting at a bar if you really want to meet someone.

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SOLO for Singles: Readers' Comments

I was just reading your article about entitled: "Single Moms find Man Now!" And I want to say a few words:

First of all, the person who wrote this probably had a wonderful marriage, either the first or second, or the previous marriage wasn't all that bad...

The reason I say this is because, my son's father beat me, and mentally abused me, then, I date this wonderful guy for four years, but he doesn't want to marry, then I date another guy and he has homosexual tendencies. My son's father was a loser, but the guy I dated for four years was a prinicple, and a community leader...the next guy was a doctor! So I am not dating losers.

It seems that I am better off single than married... Is it better to be fighting with a man, or a bit lonely?

Yes there are men who want to marry, but it seems impossible to me to find one, and I am not an ugly maid either!

Well, besides that, I liked your web site.

   LA

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