Singles learn that establishing goals is an act of confirmation. Goal setting implies a belief in the value of the goal |
Goals and Singles. How can goals help singles? Consider this: Many singles bemoan the fact that they are alone. The scenario goes something like this, "If I only had a mate/lover/spouse, I would have help doing ..." Yet, the best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your arm. You can depend on you! And the best way to lend yourself a hand is to set goals to follow. By the very act of setting a goal, you have expressed a belief in yourself and your chances for success. Establishing a goal is an act of confirmation. Any time you set a goal, you make an assumption that you can reach it. Setting that goal also implies a belief in its value. Most singles set some goals. At the very least they set goals for work. However, in order to achieve your long-term relationship dreams, you will have to set goals specifically for this area. You can not roll the dice and leave it chance. |
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