Singles and marriage: Expand the ways you pursue a long-term relationship and you might have a long-term relationship to pursue!! More about singles and marriage:
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Moving Off the Cactus... I used to live in Texas. I heard a story then about a dog in west Texas. He sat on the same patch of ground every day. One day, a prickly pear cactus started to grow where the dog liked to sit. He sat down anyway, then howled and howled. Everyday this dog went back to the same spot to sit and howl. Why didn't he move? Like some singles we know well, the dog would rather howl than change where it was used to sitting. Bringing new singles into our life depends, at least for most of us, upon our ability to change!! We know meeting someone is the first step to a relationship.
Yet, we often do the same things over and over--those very things that
have kept us from meeting a special person in the past are where we
continue sitting. We are singles of habit. The Random House Dictionary defines habit as "an acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary." Everything we do in life begins as a constant effort. You did not get up and toddle off as a child. It was a constant effort to learn to walk. You fell down; you hurt; it was easier and more comfortable to be carried. Before you learned to walk, you had to change your habit and your comfort zone of being carried. |
Singles Reality Check: Love and Marriage Find the Single Who Is Easy to Find.
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