Womanly words for the personals-wise female. Cautions and goals for the internet personals and profiles. Want a good guy? Reply to guys in the fee-paid sites. Stay away form the married guys and scary men who reply to your ads on the free sites.

The internet is a great place for single women to meet good men. It is also a scary place for the uninitiated.

Singles: Women

Single Females Dating and Finding Love by Way of the Net

Words for the personals-wise woman:
The woman who replies gets first choice.

By Joy Stevens

When women use the ads that charge a fee, most women place an ad and then wait around for some  man or men to answer them.

A few women don't. These women get lots of action--and--they almost always get first choice.

Why?

It is kind-of like the early bird getting the worm, of course.

If you are a man, plan to do a lot of the replying yourself on the fee-charged sites!

Even if he does answer ads, however, the ratio of men to women on the web is not in his favor. It is possible only one or two ladies reply back to him.

At any rate, the few women who watch and answer the new ads regularly see his ad and reply to him. He is theirs and he will never answer your ad now.

In this case, the early bird doesn't get the worm; she gets the good guy!

If you wait for a jump-start in life, you keep missing the good guys, time and again.

In fact, you really never have a chance in this numbers game of the singles world.

So, please place an ad/profile, that is the first step. But for your own sake, don't let it stop there.

Keep up with the ads and answer the ones that look good to you. That is how to find your special person first, before one more good guy is gone!

Joy

To Women from Heart Express:

The internet can be a particularly scary place for women. But it does not have to be.

Our goal is to keep Heart Express clean, safe, and free from people who are married or just plain scary. Help us do that. Let us know when anything you don't like happens. We will do what we can to stop it from happening again.

All ads are read before being published. We try to cull out the offensive ones. If we miss one, let us know here.

Replies are a different story, however. If you get rude and crude replies, we want to know it. We want to keep Heart Express as professional, as clean, and as safe as possible for the  women involved!  Again, please help us achieve that goal by letting us know of anything that is amiss here.

Heart Express Staff

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