Dear Pat,
I have come across this young lady that I am interested in taking out on a date. The situation goes like this: She was helping me at the store where she works. I have been into the store about 3-4 times since then and she seems to always have a smile and meets me when I walk in (this is also a big store).

The second time I went into the store I said, "Bye, but you'll probably see me again."

She replied, "I hope so." Today I was in getting more stuff and she thought that this could be that last time I was in and said "You'll have to stop by and visit."

Am I being a dork and not stepping up and asking her out or is she just being nice?

Ahhhh, I hope you can help me step up.

Thanks,
MS

Dear Pat:

I have a girlfriend. We had been going steady for 4 years plus. Recently, she told me that she doesn't love me anymore and wanted me to leave her alone.

She is seeing another guy. She said that she is not leaving me because of him.

I do not wish to let her go because I am still very much in love with her and I'm willing to change myself and not repeat my previous mistakes.

She used to love me a lot. I love her, too, but I have a bad temper. I always made her feel bad. I went to see friends and let her stay home alone.

I think these are the things that make her want to leave me. But I'm ready to change now. I sincerely would like to look into this problem and make it up for her.

I have tried many things to get her back but she feels that I'm bothering her.

The last thing I can do is to let things cool down and let time decide. I really need your help as I love her so much.  I think she still cares for me and we still have a chance .... although she has hurt me with many words or things she has done.

Please help.
Still Loving

Dear MS:

She is definitely interested.

Don't go broke buying merchandise from this store, however. Go back one more time "just to visit" as she suggested. Have tickets to an event in hand and ask her to go with you. If she can't go, ask her to meet you for lunch on a Saturday or brunch on Sunday. Take it from there.
And good luck to you!
Pat

Dear Still Loving:

As much as I hate to say it, I think you should back off.

You could probably use some professional help with your temper and possible abuse of women.

If she sees you have actually changed, say, twelve months from now, maybe you can win her back. 

Don't harass her. When some woman tells you to leave her alone and you don't.....

Get help or this scenario might repeat itself with other women.

Good luck,
Pat

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