I recently I went on a date with this guy who was incredibly shy. The individual would not make any eye contact with me and barely maintained conversation with me.

How can I make him feel more comfortable when I'm shy myself?

T.

I'm having doubts about my relationship because I just seen my ex-boyfriend and feelings for him came back. But my boyfriend now I love because we have a lot of things in common and he's really open towards me. but I'm shy around the guy I'm going out with now and my ex boyfriend I'm not shy around so please help me! I'm desperate!

MS

Dear T:

Have a list of things to talk about firmly in your mind before your next date. Rehearse for several days--going thru this list.

Also, try to learn something about his interests so you can bring up the subject(s)>

Shy guys are diamonds in the rough. Keep trying.

Good luck,
Pat

Dear MS:

Often we go back to the people and things we know because it feels safe. Shyness is often caused by feeling unsafe and insecure. Keep trying with your new boyfriend. Soon you will feel safe with him, too.

Feel safe,
Pat

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